Jesus christ nothing gets me angrier and more sick to my stomach than this attitude of “I did things for you so now you owe me your time, affection, and attention”
like, not even with nice guys, although THEY TEND TO BE THE WORST
NO MATTER HOW KIND YOU ARE I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DECIDE WHO I WANT TO INTERACT WITH I DON’T OWE YOU SHIT
AND IF YOU DON’T EVER BRING YOUR FEELINGS TO ME DIRECTLY I DON’T HAVE ANY OBLIGATION TO TURN YOU DOWN AS IF I’M SUPPOSED TO KNOW
LIKE DO YOU KNOW HOW SCARY IT IS TO BE AFRAID OF WHAT SOME GUY MIGHT DO IF YOU TURN HIM DOWN LIKE FUCKING SERIOUSLY